Happiness By Mark Tong Basically, I’m a people pleaser who has a knack for disappointing. -Kevin Nealon Do you see it as good or bad? You know, being a people-pleaser. On the one hand it says ‘I want to be selfless, generous, contributing’. And on the other? Well, to many it says, ‘I want to be loved’. So is that a problem? Well. when the desire to please others becomes more of a compulsion, an obsession, then it becomes something more.. CLICK HERE to find out if you’re a serial people-pleaser (and what to do about it).