Personal Growth By Gregory Henderson Do you ever feel dissatisfied with how your life turned out? You know there has to be more to life, but you know that what you’re living now just isn’t it. This is not the life you’ve always dreamed of. You had so many dreams when you were younger, but they just haven’t come to fruition. Instead, you’re stuck in a colorless life, still dreaming of one that’s more exciting. But it’s not too late. The life of your dreams is still waiting for you. It can still be yours. All that you’re missing is motivation to change! Emotional Dissatisfaction – the Motivation to Finding Solutions… Neuroscience over the last 10 years, through brain scans, and other research have discovered that our mind can create change in our reality. Scans show the brain lights up with more active when the subjects had emotional dissatisfying thoughts than any other thought pattern. When you think about it, all world advancements in technology, science, and medicine have been discovered by individual’s emotionally dissatisfied with pressing events and situations. Neuroscience concludes that emotional or inspirational dissatisfaction is the driving force (motivation) for an individual to take action on resolving problems. To be dissatisfied, you have to want something, and if you want something badly enough, you’ll do something about it.You’ll be more motivated to find a solution. The Mind-Matrix a Solution for a New Reality The brain cannot distinguish between real and unreal information, so it depends on the mind-matrix, the conscious and unconscious intellect. Which processes, reasons, thinks, feels, perceives, and judges to make an evaluation on the reality of the incoming information. The mind-matrix comprised of three parts: The conceiving mind, which is the architect that designs a clear vivid mental formation and understanding of what you desire, a detailed mental picture or portrait of your dream. The believing mind, which is the interpretation of your beliefs and how they are formed from powerful influences in life’s experiences, physical as well as mental. The achieving mind, which is the goal setter, the planner, and the initiator of all necessary action taken to accomplishing the desired results you’re looking for. If you use each part of the mind-matrix, you can create the life you want for yourself. Let’s look a bit closer into each one. The Conceiving Mind – Giving Birth to a Dream… You must give birth to the dreams that you are yearning to live for the rest of your life. The conceiving mind is the visionary architect that will draw from all its intellect to paint the perfect picture of that dream. This is the fun part; dreaming without limitations, your wildest thoughts can come out here because nothing is impossible in this world. Here’s how you can find the buried treasure chest that holds your dreams. Free your mind, and concentrate on thoughts of days gone by when you lived in an imaginary world without pressure and anxiety. Close your eyes and ask yourself, “What do I really want to do with my life?” Now wait silently for the answers, which will come in feelings, emotions, and even a quiet voice within you. Take note and write anything and everything that comes to mind on a piece of paper. Continue everyday to read over what you have taken note of, and dwell on it for ten to twenty minutes or longer. When something new pops up, it goes on the list. Continue to do this for a three weeks and you will be amazed what the subconscious mind will reveal to you. The seed for living your dreams will have been planted. The Believing Mind – Transforming Thoughts into Beliefs… This step of your strategy is all about your beliefs. You have to stop reinforcing those negative beliefs with everything you hate in your life and start planting new improved ones of everything you love in your life. You do this by Repetitive Mental Expressions (RME), which are thoughts that have not materialized completely, but they are your desires. These are short, positive emotional phrases that are repeated on a continuous basis over a period of time. Let’s pretend your finances are in shambles, and your desire is to be debt-free. You can use RME as follows: Your RME would be, “I have more money than I will ever need, and wealth flows to me from many different sources.” Think about the statement all day just like you think of your miseries, with emotions. Whenever you start to criticize or have thoughts of the life you now live, repeat the RME. Better yet, take your cell phone and record the RME replaying it when you have a negative thought or whenever you get a chance during the day. This way, you are getting more of your physical senses involved, which speeds up the process. Before long, you will notice how the negative will vanish, and you will also begin to believe what you are saying and hearing. Repetitive Mental Expressions, whether positive or negative, start out innocently enough, but they become beliefs that shape your life. The Achieving Mind – Consolidating All Information into a Plan… Time to gather all the information that the conceiving and believing minds have given up and start matchmaking. That’s basically what the achieving mind does. It takes those passionate desires of yours, seeks the core beliefs you have, and matches the ones that are suitable to that magical dream you have. When it finds enough supportive beliefs that match, it initiates the plan that it has designed to work on making it a reality. Your dreams are set, your beliefs are set, and this is how your achieving mind gets set to create reality from dreams. Take the dream you envision in your conceiving mind and write it down on paper exactly as you saw it; don’t leave any details out. Remember, don’t write it as something in the future; write it as if you are living it now. If you didn’t see it as the present, continue to meditate on it until you do. Then write a detailed short story of what you saw. Ask yourself, “Is this what I would do, or try, to reach my dreams if I knew I would never fail?” Continue to write down everything that your mind suggests. It will give you answers if you listen. Now design a plan that will let you begin work on the areas that are the easiest to accomplish — the small steps, one at a time to build confidence each and every day. Tell someone what you’re doing. Don’t hold it in. Find a friend to confide in that you are close to, and tell them about your plans, so that they can be of assistance if you get stuck. Plus, doing so will send your emotions skyrocketing, and that’s what you need. 6. Make a crap list, and every time you’re confronted with an obstacle, write it down on the list as being crap that has no place in your action plans. With an emphasis on no place in your action plans. Remember, Remember, Remember… Nothing is set in stone, so if you need to change something that your conceiving mind comes up with later, insert it and continue on. Modify until you feel like you have exactly what you want and are comfortable with. Use the Three Mind-Matrix Parts to Create the Life You Want… You make hundreds of choices a day, and 95% of them are unknowingly made by the subconscious mind. Take conscious control of your life, and make the choice to create the life of your dreams. You’ve traveled the wrong path long enough; it’s time to take back control of your life, and live. You deserve the life you desire, so don’t worry about potential consequences; it’s better than what you have now. Awaken the sleeping giant that is locked up in your soul, and become the champion in life you were meant to be. You can do this! It all begins with the first step, dream… About the Author: Gregory Henderson helps you design and create a life blueprint to reach your full potential through living, growing, and contributing to the world around you the way life was meant to be. Learn how to take control and live life on your own terms. Get his FREE REPORT: Success Beyond Your Comfort Zone
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