How To Stop Being A Serial People-Pleaser

People-Pleaser - woman looking out of a window

Basically, I’m a people pleaser who has a knack for disappointing. -Kevin Nealon

Do you see it as good or bad?

You know, being a people-pleaser.

On the one hand it says ‘I want to be selfless, generous, contributing’. And on the other? Well, to many it says, ‘I want to be loved’.

So is that a problem?

Well. when the desire to please others becomes more of a compulsion, an obsession, then it becomes something more..

CLICK HERE to find out if you’re a serial people-pleaser (and what to do about it).

About the author

Laura Tong

Laura Tong is Assistant Editor here at Goodlife ZEN. Laura's writing regularly feature on such top blogs as Huffington Post, Tiny Buddha and of course, Goodlife ZEN. Her articles have been read and shared by thousands - and hundreds of students have taken her course on building confidence, being more assertive and saying no. Grab her free cheat sheet: 5 Guilt Free Ways To Say No Without Offending Anyone (Even If You Hate Conflict). Laura also hosts the Re-write The Rules In Your Life interview series where she shares awesome happiness and positivity tips from experts around the world. Click here to listen free to the latest episodes. If you’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed download her free: Simple But Magical Stress-Busting Tips You Can Use Anywhere, Anytime in 5 Minutes or Less (Even if Your Day's Gone Up in Smoke).


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