Category Archives: happiness

How To Make Your Own Luck And Love Your Life

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Isn’t that just your luck?

Another year of no opportunities.

Another year of Lady Luck bypassing your door.

Another year of the same old same old…nothing.

Some people just seem to attract good fortune. Once in a lifetime opportunities fall from the sky into their laps.

Some people just have all the luck.

Or do they?

Can it really be that some people are just born lucky?

5 Simple Steps To Know Calm

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Calmness is the cradle of power
Josiah Gilbert Holland

Some people amaze me.

They smile in the midst of the biggest challenges, breathe into both joy and struggle, and dance during whatever song is being played, as if the rhythm of life asks no less of them.

They are simply calm.

We all want to be those people. We all want to know what it feels like to not automatically lose it when the going gets tough.

5 Simple Tips To Live A Joyful Life

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Our house sits at the end of a long, straight country road in a semi-rural area.

Every morning on my way out for the day, I pass one of our neighbors who walks the road after her child boards the school bus. I can see her from a half mile away walking towards my end of the road (and I know she can see me too).

I get ready to offer the same smile and wave that I extend at our passing each morning.

How To Stay Blissfully Calm In A Stressed-Out World

 
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 Stress is an ignorant state. It believes that everything is an emergency. – Natalie Goldberg

Have you ever seen a 9-year-old boy throwing knives at his baby sister?

No?

Strangely, I have.

Now, once you’ve had a justifiable rant about ‘kids shouldn’t throw knives’, especially at cute little girls, sister or not, here’s what I noticed…

The little girl wasn’t stressed at all.

How to Practice Self-Love Without Looking like a Narcissist

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Self-care is never a selfish act—it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer to others.” ~ Parker Palmer

You’re torn.

You’ve heard all the good advice out there about how important self-love is.

You’re constantly being told that you have to exercise, eat right, meditate, pursue your interests,

How to Live With Less Stuff But More Happiness

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Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for. – Epicurus

“Do you want some more?”

Seems a dumb question, doesn’t it?

The answer is of course, it depends what the ‘more’ is. More of what, exactly?

Of course you’d enjoy more money to buy more cool stuff,

3 Biggest Holiday Stressors and How to Overcome Them

holiday stressorsHoliday stressors can ruin the festive season for you.

The holidays offer precious time to enjoy food, time off, and people we love.

But the magic of the season can turn to stress when we find ourselves around the person we avoid all year long, or panicking over gifts, or with our digestion in a funk from too many cookies and cocktails.

Use these tips to overcome holiday stressors and enjoy the festive season.

5 Powerful Ways to Transform Anger Into Joy

transform anger into joyIt happened again.

You tried to stop yourself. You wish you hadn’t said it. And, yet, despite all your best efforts, you lost it once again.

You know better. You know you should be more “spiritual” and not allow others to push your buttons or disturb your peace. But whenever it happens you are powerless. You just explode.

It’s a vicious cycle and you feel like a failure.

5 Ways to Be Gloriously Present in the Moments of Your Precious Life

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“Everything is ecstasy, inside. We just don’t know it because of our thinking-minds. But in our true blissful essence of mind is known that everything is alright forever and forever and forever.”
— Jack Kerouac

Hello! Are you in there?

Are you sleepwalking through your days like a zombie?

Or are you wide awake, present to the infinite potential for peace, happiness, and fulfillment available right now?

7 Simple Steps to Turn Enemies into Friends

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Whenever you are confronted with an opponent. Conquer him with love.
– Mahatma Gandhi

In frustration, in anger, you ask . . .

Why? Why did that person spread lies about you behind your back, vilify you, or even mock you to your face?

Surely they had no reason when you obviously never meant to antagonize them (and honestly can’t even figure out what you did to provoke them).