By Mary Jaksch
Do you want to feel happier?
Sometimes life can feel like an uphill battle. You struggle and struggle – and it just doesn’t seem to get any easier.
Many people wonder how to feel happier. Even a little more happiness can make all the difference.
You re-discover joy and let go of worry: it’s like shedding a burden.
Why happiness is important
Well, it feels good – for one thing.
Happiness makes us feel that life is a wonderful adventure.
And – most importantly – happiness is infectious: the world smiles back at us.
Conversely, when we are unhappy – we spread gloom.
How to boost happiness
The psychologist Nathaniel Branden, who is considered to be the father of the self-esteem movement, came up with a simple way to boost happiness: the process of question-completion.
Here is how it works:
You use an incomplete sentence, and then quickly jot down six ways to complete it. Branden originally used this method to boost self-esteem, but it works to boost happiness as well.
Complete this sentence:
To bring 5% more happiness to my life …
How to do the sentence-completion exercise:
- Write what comes into your mind; don’t edit your thoughts.
- Don’t worry if you contradict yourself.
- Write down at least six completions each time you use the technique.
- Try completing this sentence each morning for seven days.
What’s next is up to you.
Try it. You may find that it helps you find new pathways to happiness. Are you willing to give it a try?
Let us know in the comments what you think about this strategy.
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