Ready, Zen, Go!


If you want to run, run a mile. If you want to experience a different life, run a marathon.
~ Emil Zatopek, Olympic Champion Long Distance Runner

A guest post by Katie Tallo of Momentum Gathering

As race weekend approaches here in Ottawa, everyone and their Uncle seems to be out on the trails training for the big marathon. I’ve heard a marathon can be a life changer. All that sweating and striving, exhilaration and triumph.

Really, when you think about it, we should all run a marathon. In fact, it should be a required course in high school, a job qualification, a prerequisite for life. Yes! Let’s push ourselves to our very limits. Let’s burst out the front door everyday of our lives. Let’s go for it! Let’s … oh forget it. I’m exhausted just thinking about it.

But wait. If life’s like a marathon, how do we sustain our dreams for the long haul? How do we gather enough momentum to achieve real life change? How do we run this race without feeling as though we’re falling behind, losing ground on our goals, or stumbling towards some unreachable finish line?

We turn that marathon into a zenathon. We infuse our lives with zenful, mindful sources of energy that help us run, our way. We get ready, we zen and we unleash our very own style of get-up-and-go!

a simple guide to running a zenathon

  • Be still in the beginning.
    Stay quiet and present as you ready yourself at the start of any new venture. In that stillness you’ll find steadiness and space to hear your own voice. You’ll be more likely see and head towards what matters most to you, ready to surge forward when the time comes.
  • Wear the right shoes. Try not to step into someone else’s shoes, even if you admire them. Learn from them, but trust that you can be self-reliant as you follow a path that resonates with your beliefs. Use words and actions that fit you. You’ll gain energy from being yourself.
  • Visualize the course. Create a picture of your goal, your purpose, and see yourself achieving it. Close your eyes and contemplate the path ahead – the steps, the challenges, the milestones and the possibilities. A clear mental picture will invigorate the early days of any journey.
  • Warm up and stretch. By moving in different ways, breaking routines and assumptions, and stretching your creativity, you’ll be more receptive and open to opportunities and more able to brave adversity. You’ll stay loose and won’t cramp up at the first sign of trouble.
  • Start slow. If you burst out of the gate, you risk missing steps, tripping up, or running out of gas too soon. If you start nice and easy, your pace will gradually align with your natural rhythms and you’ll begin to get where you want to go.
  • Watch your posture. As you move through your day, carry yourself like that person you know you are or know you can be – shoulders back, chest out, head held high – that fulfilled being who has found their calling and has embraced the freedom and joy of living their dream. Your confident posture will infuse your day with momentum and keep your energy flowing.
  • Stay nourished. Love your work, love your path, but don’t let that enthusiasm to succeed, earn, and grow consume you. Fuel yourself with rest, feed your body and soul with natural sustenance and fill yourself with deep breaths of oxygen.
  • Talk to yourself. When you feel like you’re on your way, heading in the right direction and hitting your stride, be your biggest champion. Encourage yourself, support yourself and tell yourself that you can do it. Kindness isn’t just for others. Give a little to you.
  • Enjoy the scenery. Look around and be grateful for where you are right now. Maybe you’re moving slowly towards your goals from the back of the pack, maybe you started late, don’t feel ready, or can’t quite see the next turn in the road – that’s the time to relax and enjoy what’s right in front of you. Energy comes from accepting and embracing where you are.
  • Let go of winning. Allow others to go ahead, maybe even help them with a compassionate push. Let go of being first, being the best, being noticed, and start by just being you.

There are miles to go, hills to crest and finish lines to cross in all our lives, but we don’t have to grasp for victory and blow past everyone else to make real and meaningful changes in our lives. We just need to start moving along with zenful strides, and begin gently listening and looking as we flow along our path. Set a peaceful course, relax and head off in the direction of your dreams. Don’t endure the race, enjoy the zenathon.

Katie Tallo is a writer, director, motivator, runner, vegetarian and mother who writes a blog that encourages steady, positive actions for sustaining joyful and vibrant life change, Momentum Gathering.

Note from Mary Jaksch: Katie is a member of the A-List Blogger Club, the amazing ongoing training environment for bloggers that Leo Babauta and I run. I’m proud of Katie – she shines in this guest post – which was a training assignment. Take a look at her blog and subscribe: Katie is worth it.

The A-List Blogger Club has changed my life. A month ago I didn’t know a tweet from a widget. Now I’m running my own blog and the club is right there with me. Everyday I connect with someone new, and not just connect, but get to know them, laugh with them, befriend, share, support and exchange ideas. Mary and Leo have created a community that is a reflection of who they are — generous, genuine and successful!
~ Katie Tallo of Momentum Gathering

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1 LPC May 29, 2010 at 5:20 am

Great post Katie. Anxiety, while it can sometimes push us further and faster, more often gets in our way.
.-= LPC´s last blog ..Why Do They Call Paris "The City Of Light?" =-.

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2 Katie May 29, 2010 at 6:52 am

@LPC, thank you. Yes, anxiety is like a mini-rush, but it’s fleeting in its long term effectiveness and likely hard on the body too. Glad you enjoyed the post.

Katie
.-= Katie´s last blog ..How to Time Travel on a Budget =-.

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3 Melissa Gorzelanczyk May 29, 2010 at 5:48 am

Great to see you here, Katie. Thanks for this timely advice.
Melissa

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4 Tammy Strobel May 29, 2010 at 5:48 am

Katie – awesome post and so inspiring. I’ve been feeling a little anxious the last few days and this was just what I needed to read. Thanks for the tips! :)

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5 Doug Armey May 29, 2010 at 6:35 am

Katie:

Great reminders. It’s easy, particularly if you have an driving kind of personality, to realize life success is a marathon not a sprint. So relax, live your own life, follow your own dream, run at your own pace. And enjoy the race not just the finish.

Thanks
.-= Doug Armey´s last blog ..Experiencing Miracles in the Important Insignificant =-.

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6 Doug Armey May 29, 2010 at 6:38 am

*Correction* I meant to say “Its easy to forget that life is a marathon not a sprint.” See I was so busy trying to fit in the comment into my hectic schedule I didn’t stop long enough to reread it before clicking submit. What a great object lesson.
.-= Doug Armey´s last blog ..Experiencing Miracles in the Important Insignificant =-.

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7 Françoise Hontoy May 29, 2010 at 6:59 am

Hi Katie,
excellent post! Thank you (and Mary) for it. I especally liked the point about wearing the right shoes.
thanks
Françoise
.-= Françoise Hontoy´s last blog ..The New Web Trend Map Brought to Us by iA =-.

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8 Aileen May 29, 2010 at 7:11 am

Inspiring!!!!!!!! I love the combination of high energy running with inner gentle energy of mediation. Your guide to running a zenathon rocks!!!!!! The shoes, the warm up, the posture….it’s brilliant – I love it and I am excited to start practicing “zenful strides.”
.-= Aileen´s last blog ..Quote for today…the law of flotation =-.

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9 Jean Sarauer May 29, 2010 at 10:11 am

Katie,

This article really hits home for me because of how I love to blog. And blogging is definitely more of a marathon than a sprint to me. I could relate to all the points and am printing this out to keep me focused on the path.

Great job, and I have to say that your byline looks especially attractive on the front page of Goodlife Zen :)
.-= Jean Sarauer´s last blog ..How to Kick Your Blog into Summer Gear =-.

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10 Katie May 29, 2010 at 12:55 pm

Thank you all so much for your kind words, on-going support and friendship. If you found some ease from your anxiety, your hectic schedules, your driven, high-energy personalities then mission accomplished. Peace and love to each of you.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..How to Time Travel on a Budget =-.

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11 Damon May 29, 2010 at 2:46 pm

It’s an interesting thing that when you “let go of winning” you experience success.

Good post.

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12 Katie May 29, 2010 at 3:05 pm

@Damon, you’re right. It’s compassion and kindness before ego that gives you all the success you need.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..How to Time Travel on a Budget =-.

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13 Elana May 30, 2010 at 5:10 am

Hi Katie. I really enjoyed this post. I recently took up running again after a two decade hiatus and wrote about why in a recent post on my blog. One of my long-term goals is to run a marathon, however my focus is currently on living a zenathon :) you’ve coined a great term there. Your post hit on several points that really resonated with me but this one hits the mark full on:

“Let go of being first, being the best, being noticed, and start by just being you.”

Yes. Yes. Yes.

Thanks for the well thought out and much appreciated wisdom.
Have a great weekend in Ottawa!

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14 Katie May 30, 2010 at 5:22 am

@Elana, how wonderful that the word zenathon resonates with you, but it’s even more wonderful that you are focused on living like a real zenathon runner. The line you mentioned is one of my favourite parts too, because it’s so hard to just be ourselves and let go all the messages around us telling us what success should be. Way to go. Love your avatar picture by the way. Awesome and empowering!

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15 Di B May 31, 2010 at 11:52 am

Hi

I find your article very affirming Katie. Being in my 50′s, I’ve had enough life experience to have a sense of how I feel at ease in my life, of what my way of being is, but the world pushes so hard toward striving and go,go,go and we must do everything that is put in front of us that I find it very hard to be with how I am and who I am. Feeling confident enough to express myself and be myself in my fullness is my current challenge. To listen to what I need and feel and to sit with what is really happening is how I want to be. It is my aspiration. Thank you for your inspiration.

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16 Katie May 31, 2010 at 12:19 pm

@Di B, I’m so glad you found the article inspiring. I know how you feel. Striking a balance between the pushiness of the world and the pull of your true self is not easy. It’s a tug-of-war that is made that much harder, as you say, by the “go, go, go” and the “striving”. I’m glad to hear that you feel at ease in your life. That’s a great place to relax into, let go what the world’s doing and listen to what you need. I hope you find you “fullness”. What a nice expression. Thank you for your thoughtful comments.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..7-Week Life Cleanse: Moving Differently in Week 2 =-.

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17 Josten May 31, 2010 at 6:19 pm

Reminded me of how i ran 3 miles for a exam. how when i started the class i couldn’t picture me doing that many miles. Then when it came time i pushed myself and i was able to.
.-= Josten´s last blog ..Take the first step =-.

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18 Katie June 1, 2010 at 12:38 am

@Josten, you are so right. We are capable of so much more than we realize. It’s amazing how we huff and puff through those first few steps, then a few weeks later push through what seemed impossible. Congrats on the 3 miles!
.-= Katie´s last blog ..7-Week Life Cleanse: Moving Differently in Week 2 =-.

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19 Hilary May 31, 2010 at 6:44 pm

Hi Mary .. and hello Kate .. I love this – I glanced at it yesterday and thought I must come back because the name “zenathon” has been ringing in my ears ever since! You’ve said so many brilliant things here .. exactly what we need to do in life, let alone a marathon itself! Each point is so true and so relevant – thanks .. it’s a great post and so appropriate to all of us: take our time, know the goals, keep on running, but smell the flowers along the way & enjoy the journey .. Really enjoyed this – thanks Hilary
.-= Hilary´s last blog ..Stirling Castle Skeletons – who are they? =-.

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20 Katie June 1, 2010 at 12:40 am

@Hilary, Thank you for embracing the article and I hope you are living your own zenathon. I appreciate you coming back to enjoy it.

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21 Topi May 31, 2010 at 11:38 pm

What a wonderful post, I particularly like the point about wearing the right shoes. I think if you nail that, the rest probably falls into place a little easier.
Topi
.-= Topi´s last blog ..Welcome, new money =-.

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22 Katie June 1, 2010 at 12:42 am

@Topi, Too true! The shoes are the key. It’s not always easy to figure out how to find the right fit, but if you just watch how you move through life, I think you can begin to get there. Glad you enjoyed the idea and hope your shoes fit you well.

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23 rob sellen June 1, 2010 at 12:20 pm

That’s a nice, simple, yet powerful message there. :)
Not bad for a first guest post either. :P

An analogy we could adapt to any path we take, blogging, diet, whatever, even training for a marathon. :)
Not that I could do it anyway, the marathon that is. ;)
Always been a sprinter style runner.

Blogging on the other hand, or writing to be more precise…
Or loving…
Or living… :)
Or anything…

That’s the real beauty of this post, so, great stuff, I’m bookmarking it, for good reason. ;)
.-= rob sellen´s last blog ..Wake up small minded people, think! =-.

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24 Katie June 1, 2010 at 12:59 pm

@rob sellen, it’s so interesting how lessons from sports and art often translate to just about everything else in life. I know from painting I can gain a great deal of insight about letting go in my writing. So glad you’ve bookmarked the post and will come back to it when the mood strikes or, maybe, when the urge to sprint hits you.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..7-Week Life Cleanse: Moving Differently in Week 2 =-.

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25 MaRie June 1, 2010 at 9:42 pm

I run since 15 years usually 3 times a week from 15 to 30 km. But except in the beginning I didn’t have any ambition to do a marathon, because my body clearly signalizes that about 30 km is the limit. A couple of times I actually did the 40 km, but just because during the runs I felt I could do it.
In my opinion runners often focus too much on that ‘magic’ marathon distance, which just came by accident and is probably too much for many people. I only do what doesn’t feel too bad and what Is possible and healthy in the long term.

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26 Katie June 1, 2010 at 11:54 pm

@MaRie, yes I have heard it said that marathons are tough on the body long-term. Doing what feels right for you and not pushing beyond what feels “bad” is a great lesson for life. We can stop pushing and just go at our own pace, instead of some predetermined distance someone else has set out for us. Likely much healthier in the end. Thank you for your insights and perspective as a runner.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..7-Week Life Cleanse: Moving Differently in Week 2 =-.

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27 Debbie Simon June 3, 2010 at 1:27 am

This was really good. I especially liked the part about wearing your own shoes. I am a late bloomer, and had been wearing shoes that were too tight, but I think at 40 I’ve finally found shoes that fit. Wonderful post.

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28 Katie June 3, 2010 at 1:43 am

@Debbie Simon, I think 40 is a magic age for many of us. I even had a friend tell me the other day that she couldn’t wait to turn 40, she felt like she could just relax after that and be more herself. It seems wearing our own shoes is a tough one for many of us. Understandably so. We are told to decide what we’re going to be around the age of 17 and who knows what they really want to be until 40. Thanks for commenting, Debbie.

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29 John Sherry June 3, 2010 at 1:35 am

I am never going to see a running race ever again Katie without shouting, “Zenathon”!! What a truly fabulous phrase – where did you get that from it’s inspired??
But not half as inspiring as this post, it’s a real beauty. I love the ‘stay nourished’ (coffee and muffins for the soul do you mean?) and ‘Let go of winning’ as it’s not really a race more a journey. So uplifting to witness someone else highlighting that.

Your writing style is high class, simple, smooth and flowing and I so enjoy reading your work. When I need a break from my own I look at yours. Honestly, I do.

In that instance it’s not ‘if’ you will be a success but ‘zen’!!
.-= John Sherry´s last blog ..The Treasures of Life’s Simple Pleasures =-.

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30 Katie June 3, 2010 at 1:48 am

@John Sherry, you do have a way with words. I’m sure I didn’t invent the word zenathon, but it did just come to me when I thought of combining Mary’s beautiful wisdom on Goodlife Zen with my desire to gather momentum in life. It sprang up from there. Yes, coffee and muffins, if that nourishes your soul, then yes! So glad you’re running your race, your way, at Real Simple People.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..7-Week Life Cleanse: Moving Differently in Week 2 =-.

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31 Lauren June 9, 2010 at 5:26 am

Dear Katie,

This is a beautiful post and written in such a lovely way.

I found myself relaxing more and more as I read!

Thanks for sharing these great ideas for life.

Warm regards,
Lauren
.-= Lauren´s last blog ..The Truth Of A Lie – Part 2 =-.

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32 Katie June 9, 2010 at 6:13 am

@Lauren, that’s so great that you found peace in the writing and in the ideas. Wonderful. Thank you for the generous feedback.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..7-Week Life Cleanse: Gathering Ease & Flow in Week 3 =-.

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33 Scott Dinsmore June 9, 2010 at 1:09 pm

Excellent post Katie! I love the analogy. It fits so well with life and its enduring transitions and turns. It inspires me to not only throw on my Vibrams and head out for a long run but also to continue to do the same with my life, my business, my blog and my effort to help others. Thanks for a extra shot of Zen to keep me going. I will definitely feed off this in my future articles and my day to day interactions.

Well Done,
Scott
.-= Scott Dinsmore´s last blog ..10 Lessons a Pickup Artist Can Teach a Salesman =-.

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34 Katie June 9, 2010 at 1:24 pm

@Scott Dinsmore, thank you. I love that in reading this you got an “extra shot of Zen” to infuse into your work, running, blogging, life and, especially, to continue your efforts to help others. Sounds like you are already running your own zenathon.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..7-Week Life Cleanse: Gathering Ease & Flow in Week 3 =-.

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35 Angela Artemis June 10, 2010 at 12:34 am

Hi Mary~!
It’s wonderful to see Katie here on GLZ!

Katie,
I’m not a runner, but I can relate to all the principles you outlined in your terrific post. They certainly apply to any goal we have for our lives!

I had to laugh when you said: Wear the right shoes though! It made me think of my comment about feeling as if I’d been wearing the wrong size shoes all my life.

I’m going to save this post so that I can memorize your excellent steps to success!
.-= Angela Artemis´s last blog ..Angela Artemis Interviewed by Hulbert Lee of From Bottom Up =-.

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36 Katie June 10, 2010 at 4:10 am

@Angela Artemis, I’m so glad you’re finding inspiration in this post. Loved your interview on http://www.frombottomup.com with Hulbert. It really sounds like you are comfortable in your own shoes. Thank you for all your support.

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