
A guest post by Steven Aitchison of Change Your Thoughts
How did you find yourself reading this article, did you see it on twitter, was it part of a regular pattern i.e. you have signed up to Mary’s newsletter or RSS feed or did you happily find it by chance?
This is what we will be talking about in the article today, Serendipity.
Serendipity is defined in the Oxford English Dictionary as:
“The occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way.”
I met Mary Jaksch in a serendipitous way. I was doing a Google search about writing and clicked on a few links, one of which was for a website ‘Write to Done’ a blog by Mary, and Leo Babauta. I thought nothing of it as I didn’t know Mary, but knew Leo quite well. I then stumbled across a blogging course by Leo called A-List Blogging Bootcamp. I quickly signed up for it and lo and behold, our very own Mary Jaksch was one of the facilitators on the course. That is the story of how Mary and I know each other and it all came about with a simple search on Google about writing and ended up me going on a blogging course and meeting Mary.
I love the word serendipity; it’s one of my favorite words. I don’t quite know why I love it, maybe it’s the flow of syllables or the meaning behind it and it’s just a great word. I digress, as I wanted to speak about how serendipitous events can change our lives and ask the question can we increase the chances of serendipitous events happening.
Serendipitous events in Science

Science is littered with serendipitous events that have changed the course of our lives in some way: Alexander Fleming discovering Penicillin happened when he had failed to disinfect cultures of bacteria from his trips and found them contaminated with Penicillium Molds, which killed the bacteria.
Although this was a fortunate accident Alexander had the knowledge and insight to recognize that the Penicillium Mold killing the bacteria was significant in some way and acted on the information. Had he not had this knowledge he wouldn’t have recognized the importance.
Other scientific discoveries attributed to serendipitous events are:
- Isaac Newton’s apple falling from the tree, which led to his thoughts and writings on the nature of gravity.
- Albert Hoffman discovered the psychedelic effects of LSD after he had, unintentionally, absorbed a small amount of it while studying its properties. His bicycle trip home was the first ever acid trip.
- Ian Osterloh, whilst looking at a potential new drug for angina concluded that the new drug had no effect on angina but had a marked effect on something else, the drug Viagra was born.
Does the internet increase the chance of serendipity?

The internet has certainly made the world a smaller place, not literally of course. Without it, I think it is fair to say I wouldn’t have met any of the fascinating people I know, like Mary. Making the world smaller and more accessible also increases the likelihood of happy chances occurring.
I have come across countless people, bought a few products that have helped me, listened to new music that I otherwise wouldn’t have. In fact my freelance writing career was born out of serendipity. I would say the internet has more than increased the chances of serendipitous events happening in our lives.
William McKeen, journalist with the St Petersburg Times thinks there is another side of the argument that says that the internet decreases our chances of serendipity. When we search for something on the net we are looking for something specific and therefore might miss the chance of finding something unrelated as we might in a library. Read William McKeen’s The Endangered Joy of Serendipity here
Steven Johnson, author, wrote a great piece disputing McKeen’s argument called Can We Please Kill This Meme Now which has some great points.
Different types of serendipity
I think there are two different types of serendipity.
Micro-Serendipity – Whereby serendipitous events are specific to us. For example me meeting Mary on a course which led me to be here, writing this article. The main benefactors of this meeting would be Mary and I; however it could lead to others benefitting from our meeting.
Macro-Serendipity – A serendipitous event that can affect a large group of people. The discovery of Penicillin would come under this category.
5 Ways to Increase Your Chances of Serendipity

1. Get out of the house
Imagine you sat in your house all day, every day, just sitting and staring at the four walls, what would your chances of a happy accident occurring; virtually zero. So to increase your chances of ‘micro serendipity’ get out of the house, meet the neighbors, buy from your local shops, go to the library. Although nothing might happen when doing this, it’s good for you to socialize in the real world.
2. Meet others within your field of interest
If you want to be a writer, would you rather hang out with yourself, possibly struggling to write, or hang out with likeminded people who could very well give you the ideas needed to finish your book, or give you ideas for articles etc.
3. Open up your mind
There are possibly thousands of serendipitous events happening around you, which could lead you to change your life in some way, but if you are not open to the possibility then you will not recognize them. Your life is literally a happy accident, open up your mind to the possibility that chance encounters mean something.
Ask yourself if meeting someone three times in different places means something, ask yourself if a book falling on your head means something, ask yourself if finding a college prospectus on a bus means something. By enquiring all the time into signs and their meanings it can lead to unexpected surprises.
4. Follow the signs
Once you have opened up your mind to the possibility of serendipity and the fact that it might be happening all the time around you, start following the signs that you are being presented. You might not believe at all in this strange game but I would ask you to try it for a week and see where it leads you.
To do this ask the question ‘Does this mean something?’ after every event, big or small. Therefore, if you see the same person, three times in different places and it seems a coincidence start talking to them and see what happens.
5. Can it help others
Have you had a micro-serendipitous event that you think could benefit others why not make it a macro-serendipitous event.
Arthur Fry is a good example of taking a micro-serendipitous event and making it a macro one. He wanted to find a way to bookmark his hymnal at church and his subsequent attendance at a seminar on low-tack adhesive led to the ‘Post-it Note’.
What about you?
Have you had a serendipitous moment? Why not share it with us.
Read more by Steven on his blog Change Your Thoughts.




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Loved this post and so many great tips and information here Steve. I think opening up our minds and becoming more aware is the key to serendipity.
Thanks for the great post!
Dayne

Dayne | TheHappySelf.com´s last blog ..6 Motivation Techniques to Jumpstart Your Life
Yes, absolutely. Travel,(even if only to the local park) an open mind, and the awareness that the universe can send you knowledge. Understanding the role of serendipity can mean we relinquish the unproductive need to be always in control.
LPC´s last blog ..Finding Oneself In India, 1982
Great post. It is amazing that something we think happens entirely by change is still something we can seek out, just by opening ourselves up to it.
Jonathan Frei | ordinary time´s last blog ..The Myth of Self Reliance
I loved this post! Serendipity is ones of my favorite words, too… it’s even fun to say… or “serendipitous”, which is even more delightful to utter. I thought deeply about incorporating some version of the word into my blog title when I created it, but it didn’t make sense in the big scheme of things.
Anyway, this post was a refreshing one, and I quite enjoyed it…
Question: How do I get Steve to serendipitously visit my blog and leave a comment?
Cheers,

Miche
Miche | Serenity Hacker´s last blog ..Accepting Suffering and A Call for Compassion
@Dayne – Thanks for your comments, I appreciate your support.
@LPC I loved that phrase ‘Universe can send you knowledge’. Thanks for your comments.
@Jonathan – I honestly believe we can create more chances of serendipitous events happening (isn’t that just a great word
)
@Miche –
had to laugh at that one, i left a comment and subscribed to your feed
It is such a good word isn’t it, I am glad it’s not only me who thinks that. thanks for your comments Miche.
Steven Aitchison´s last blog ..Conquering Fear
Well done Steve, Have you ever seen the movie “Serendipity.” After reading this I know you would like it.
My mom died a few days ago. An hour later while I was standing on the hospital patio looking at the view and thinking, I struck up a conversation with a man who was out there as well. After a long conversation, we introduced ourselves. Turned out he was a close childhood friend from 40 years ago. The universe provides what is needed when it is needed. Just have an open mind.
jr cline´s last blog ..Autumn
I so treasure the serendipitous moments of my life, like discovering when I was 42 that I went to kindergarten with one of my coworkers, or finally quitting a job I stayed too long at, only to get a call the next day about a job I didn’t even apply for. I notice that when I’m willing to take risks serendipity often finds me. When it does, I’m always reminded of Joseph Cambell’s “invisible hands coming all the time” quote.
Patty @ Why Not Start Now?´s last blog ..Education: A Good Thing
Steven, that is such a beautiful and inspiring article!

One of my favorite movies is the one called “Serendipity”. I think it shows the same ideas that you have put in this post.
I also agree that serendipity is something that happens to us only if we are ready to see it. I remember an old joke about a man drowning in the lake. He cannot get to the shore and he asks God “oh, Lord, please save me!” A boat approaches him and a man in the boat tries to get him out of the water. The man refuses to get out and says that God will take care of him. Then the second boat approaches, he refuses again. The same thing happens the third time. He drowns and then he meets God in heaven. “Why haven’t you helped, Lord? I’ve been asking for your help.” “I sent you three boats to save you and you refused to climb into all three of them.” We must be ready to see and accept the signs and help that we are given. If we just sit at home and wait for a miracle to happen then we will end up wasting our life in vain.
Thank you again for this article Steven. It is full of inspiration and it sounds like a sign of serendipity to me
Anastasiya´s last blog ..Life Priorities, Choices and Balanced Living Simply Said
I love serendipities. O noticed they happen more often when you are in the state of trust and surrender. When you let go and just open yourself up to opportunities just like you said Steven.
Lana – Dreamfollowers Blog´s last blog ..Why Positive Thinking Doesn’t Work
@Jonathan – I have seen it years ago and I did really enjoy it, but I might get a copy and watch it again
@JR I am really sorry to hear about your mother passing away, especially so soon after your father passing away (I read your deviantart profile).
@Patty – Thanks for leaving a comment Patty, there are some great stories in there.
@Anastasiya – thanks for sharing that story, I’ve heard it before but never tire of hearing it. It’s amazing what happens when we open our minds to new possibilities.
@Lana – very true. When we open ourselves up we are really letting go of our egos and connecting with something more powerful.
Steven Aitchison´s last blog ..Conquering Fear
Great post, Steven, especially “follow the signs.” There are signs around us all the time. They might be subtle, and they might not come in the version we are wanting or expecting. As you suggest, being open, being quiet, listening, watching…all can help us see the serendipitous happenings that are right here.
Gail @ A Flourishing Life´s last blog ..Time to Forgive (audio)
I’ve always loved the concept of serendipity (I remember reading a book about it as a child and loving it… plus, there’s that wonderfully cheesy movie called Serendipity). This was a great post on the topic. RTing for sure!
Positively Present´s last blog ..note to self: it’s okay to be happy
We moved from MI to AZ 2 years ago. My husband lost his new job 16 months after we arrived.
He is 58 and decided he didn’t want to be laid off again. He decided he’d start up his own accounting pracitce again.
What has happened in the last three months is nothing short of amazing. I believe when we’re on the right path and following our hearts synchronicity happens big time.
He’s now sees the job lost as the best thing that could have happened to him!
Yeah!
Tess The Bold Life´s last blog ..If I were King or Queen…I’d Change Our World
Steven, this is a really great post.
I keep meeting this guy in all sorts of places – 4 times in the last month alone. Okay, couple of those times was at personal development and spiritual events so we do move in the same circles.
But the other 2 times was when I was entering a train and he was leaving it, and last Sunday I walked past this coffee shop and spotted him inside, miles away from his home.
So I wonder what serendipitous(what a beauiful word!)magic is in store for us:-)
Having read your article, I am going to fix up a coffee with this friend and see what transpires.
“Does this mean something” will now be one of my daily mantras from now onwards…
Listening to the messages, taking time to listen is essential
@Gail – So true gail, if we are open we will fall over the signs that are put on our path.
@Dani – Thanks Dani, I did like the cheesy movie as well
@Tess, I love stories like this and I am so happy it worked out for you and your husband.
@Arvind – It would be good to know what happens and why you were meant to meet. Great mantra to live by
@Jon – Taking time to listen is hugely important. thanks for stopping by
Steven Aitchison´s last blog ..5 Steps To Increasing Your Coincidence Factor
great article!! then wonderful comments.
@Lana, “noticed they happen more often when you are in the state of trust and surrender.” When you let go and just let things happen.
How is this for serendipity, found my first love on facebook, he’s single again, I’m single again, if it had not been for a series of events that took me to join facebook, something I swore I would never do. After all this time and the different paths we have taken, life allowed us to grow. Now maybe we have the chance through new life skills to make this time right. No matter what happens, how it happened was just perfect for me at that time.
I was reading Arvin’s twitter post and came across this article. What a serendipity. Love this article. For me reading the book “You can Heal your life” by Louise, watching Secret movie etc are some acts I would never have done. They have changed my thinking and opened up possibilities.
@Lisa – Another great story lisa, thanks for sharing and leaving your comments.
@Lalitha – Louise Hay’s books are very inspirational. Thanks for stopping by.
Steven Aitchison´s last blog ..5 Steps To Increasing Your Coincidence Factor