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A gem is not polished without rubbing, nor a person perfected without trials. ~ Chinese proverb
.By Mary Jaksch
We all know how important mental and physical strength is for our well-being. But in order to overcome any hardship, and create a life that’s not just ordinary, but extraordinary – we also need spiritual strength. When all three kinds of strength – physical, mental, and spiritual are present, we can become spiritual warriors.
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Being a spiritual warrior doesn’t mean we’re super-human. It means that we’re able to overcome hardship. This is what the secret code of the Ninja – the shadow-warriors of ancient Japan – can teach us.
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The Ninja taught that one should embrace hardship. We all know that the hard times, when we have to grit our teeth and just simply continue walking uphill – step by step – are the ones where transformation begins.
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Actually, a weird transformation happened to me during that first Blackbelt grading – I’ll tell you about it in this short video. (I trained in karate for 18 years and finally became a 4th Dan Blackbelt.)
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The secret teachings of the Ninjas are based upon the ancient Chinese lore of the four elements: earth, water, fire and wind. It may sound esoteric, but this wisdom is really practical and down to earth.It can help us find a new perspectives when we get stuck in life.
1. Be like the earth
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This secret is about being grounded. When we are grounded, we are steady and collected in mind and body. In terms of martial arts, to be like the earth means to stand your ground. In life this translates as staying steady and remaining grounded in reality.
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Exercises:
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- Take off your shoes, go outside, and connect with the earth through your feet. Closing your eyes and breathing into your belly, imagine roots growing from your feet deep into the ground.
- Walking meditation is another wonderful way to become grounded. You can read how to do it here.
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2. Be like fire
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Fire has tremendous power that can be used for survival – but it can also be destructive if not contained. A spiritual warrior embraces fire in the form of passion. The seat of fire energy is in the hara, or lower belly. Anger is also an expression of fire energy. Most times anger is destructive, but there are also times when it is a skillful emotion. Anger can give us the strength to stand up against injustice, and the courage to defend ourselves against all odds.
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Animals use fire energy for survival. I’m sure you’ve seen how a kitten threatened by a dog can turn into a furious ball of puffed-up fur that goes on the attack. Even big dogs choose to turn tail and run when faced with such a fiery little monster.
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.In terms of martial arts, fire signifies attack. In life, to be like fire means using passion in order to overcome barriers.
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Exercise:
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Place both hands on your lower belly and feel you breath there. Close your eyes and connect with the power and passion in your hara (lower belly).
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2. Be like water
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The softest things in the world overcome the hardest things in the world.
~ Lao-Tzu.
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Water finds its way to the sea. No matter what mountains block the way. A mountain stream (like in the image above) flows gracefully around rocks. In terms of martial arts, to be like water means to avoid, or deflect an attack. In life, to be like water means to find ways of reaching your goals by moving around an obstacle, instead of confronting it head-on.
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Exercise:
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Place both hands on your chest and feel your breath there. Close your eyes and connect with your steady purpose and quiet courage.
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4. Be like the Wind
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The wind can change direction at any moment. It has no fixed direction. As human beings, we suffer from the opposite: as life goes on, we become more and more fixed in the way we live and in the way we think. We become creatures of habit, and change seems more and more difficult.
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In martial arts, to be like wind means to adapt to circumstances without pre-conceptions. In his book The Spiritual Practices of the Ninja, Ross Heaven says:
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The Ninja reckoned that 80 percent of our available energy is locked into habits that stem from generational and social conditioning. They became expert warriors by using their enemy’s reliance on habit against them and employing the element of surprise – the other 20 percent – themselves.
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Because we fixed in our ideas of who we are and what we are capable of, we miss countless opportunities to grow and develop. Doors open in life – but sometimes we don’t see them. We walk past because we don’t expect to see a door there. When we become like the wind, we can be light and flexible in our thinking an actions.
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Exercise:
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Stand up straight and stretch out both arms as far as you can – as if you are poised for flight. Close your eyes and feel the energy in your fingertips. Notice how light your body feels.
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How to use these secret teachings
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What I find really useful is to recall these four different modes of being when I’m faced with a situation in which I feel stuck. i take each energy in turn and apply them to the situation. Say, for example, that I was in conflict with a loved one. Each of the secret teachings can reveal a way forward. It may be that reflecting on earth energy would give me a sense that I need to stand my ground, and fire energy would give me the courage to speak the truth. On the other hand water energy would remind me to keep true to my path in life, and wind energy would suggest that I move gracefully around the problem without confronting it directly.
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Every time we are stuck, it helps to find new ways to think about the situation. And this is the beauty of the Ninja teachings – they are simple, but deep.
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Who were the Ninja?
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We know little about the origins of the Ninja, the ‘children of darkness’. They practiced the arts of stealth and invisibility in the mist-shrouded mountains of medieval Japan. It is thought that these warriors were ex-military men who fled China after the collapse of the T’ang dynasty and settled in Japan. When they arrived in Japan, the Ninja became teachers of martial arts, philosophy, and mysticism adapted from the esoteric knowledge of India and Tibet and the spiritual practices of Chinese monks and shamans.
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Few records were kept of its existence. Most of what is known about the ninja is taken from stories that have been passed down from generation to generation. The history of the ninja is shrouded in mystery.
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Here is a short video with an overview of Ninja history:
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Even though Ninjas disappeared over four hundred years ago, their teachings still pervade martial arts to this day. And they can help us be more resilient and resourceful in the face of difficulty or hardship.
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What’s your experience with challenges and hardship? What did you learn about yourself?
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{ 18 comments… read them below or add one }
Very interesting article!
The information and exercises are very intriguing.
Right now I’m at school, so cannot view the videos. But I will today or sometime soon when I’m at home.
Incorporating these “elements” into our life when we are stuck or just in general sounds like something not only fun, but will also have a positive effect.
This may be the first comment of mine that you’ve seen. I’ve commented on many (but not close to all!) of your articles, but I’m working on it. I’ve gone to your last page and have been working from your first article up.
Please do take a look at my comments, Ms. Jaksch! :3
@Trent
Thanks so much for your lovely comments! I’ve sent you an email to say how much I enjoy them.
It’s so amazing to see you work your way through every one of my posts and adding comments. And each comment is interesting and adds a new dimension.
That’s really fantastic, Trent!
Mary, thanks for sharing 4 more simple tools for us to cope with the challenges of life.
I shall certainly make these 4 secrets part of my daily routine of attaining Zendom
As for challenges, the biggest challenge I have faced is the breakdown of my marriage and loss of job at the same time.
I learnt however to stay true to myself and ultimately find out what I really wanted to do with my life.
I got to see the gift in the end of my marriage.
.-= Arvind Devalia´s last blog ..The One and Only Secret for Getting a Jumbo Memory! =-.
Hi Mary,
I love this take on dealing with challenges and with life. The martial arts have always intrigued me.
I’ve found that viewing our energies, patterns, and relationships in terms of the four elements, and exercising and balancing those can not only help overcome challenges but can help make life richer and more whole.
Thanks for outlining them and putting some practical tips in there on how to nurture our connection with them.
Cheers,
Miche
.-= Miche | Serenity Hacker´s last blog ..There Is No Such Place As Stuck =-.
@ Mrs. Jaksch
No, thank you! :0
You are perfectly welcome, I’m very glad to be a new part of your community.
And I got it! Thanks for sending it.
Aw, thanks again. I was hesitant as first to comment at first for many reasons.
That I’m only 17, a novice to meditation, and almost completely ignorant of Buddhism.
But something made me comfortable enough to do so. Most likely your kind and warm personality.
Thanks again, again, Ms. Jaksch! :3
Wow. You continue to surprise me Mary. You actually know martial arts. I think this is the best article I read this month. Among the 4 elements, I like water the most. Don’t confront obstacles head on, find a way around it.
.-= Karlil´s last blog ..Being Independent: A Guide To Self Date =-.
@Arvind
Losing your marriage AND your job is a huge deal. The same sad combo happened to me.
I had recurring bouts of depression for a year after that because there was just too much change to handle all at once.
I think the water energy is particularly helpful at such a time. Because we need to keep on flowing towards our goals and aspirations.
BTW that difficult year was whe I started karate training. That saved me.
I think any passionate endeavor can help us to overcome such difficult times.
@ Karlil
It would be interesting to think of these four energies as character strategies (ah – I feel a new post coming on…)
I think my core strategy is fire. That’s not a particularly easy one to live gracefully with
Water is a much better strategy. I try to be more like water these days – but the fire keeps on burning bright and makes life exciting.
I LOVED this, Mary. You made these profound truths accesible for anyone, but they resonated with a few of my personal passions: martial arts and Chinese wisdom and astrology. I’m going to reread your post then apply this ancient wisdom to my current challenges. I’ve been resisting wind and water in some areas recently, and haven’t been grounded enough in others. Thank you!
.-= janice | Sharing the Journey´s last blog ..Clutter: What are You Really Holding Onto…and Why? =-.
@ Janice
I’m so glad you’re finding this helpful! It’s amazing how these different modes of being can help us get going in a new way when we feel blocked. Each one suggests a totally different way of dealing with a particular challenge.
Let us know how you get on.
Hi Mary, great article on the spiritual side of Ninjutsu. Actually Ninjutsu is an art that is still alive today. I’ve trained Ninjutsu for one year with a trainer, who trained with Masaaki Hatsumi, the head of the Bujinkan Organisation, which is the lineage holder of the Togakure and other ryu’s.
Go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bujinkan and get more info.
Although I moved away from it, the spiritual as well as the martial arts aspect really affected ne.
And yes – it is an efficient and deadly martial art. I’ve seen a 5th Dan fight with several higher Dan’s of other martial arts, and he won. And it evolved, they are constantly like Jeet Kune Do (the martial art of Bruce Lee) adopting their art and integrating new things into it.
.-= Patrick @ unwrapyourmind.com´s last blog ..UNWRAPPED: How to Become a Vision Through the Power of a Legacy =-.
@ Patrick
Hey, thanks for the link! It’s interesting to hear that the spiritual aspect of Ninjutsu really had an impact on you.
Hi again Mary,
Thanks for sharing your own experience of losing a job as well as your marriage coming to an end at the same time.
That time all those years ago was actually a great period of growth for me and was the making of me. I am the person I am today because of what happend then.
So a silver lining to every cloud:-)
Wow Mary… So you’re a 4th Dan Blackbelt in Karate.. You sure can kick some ass!
#3 – Be Like Water reminds me of a famous quote by the great martial arts master – Bruce Lee.
“Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way round or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.
Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water my friend.” – Bruce Lee
Cheers~
Mark
Hi, Mary -
This post feels very powerful to me . . I can see how I can apply it very directly to my daily life (not just the big stuff).
Thanks for sharing your wisdom!
- Marie (Coming Out of the Trees)
.-= Marie´s last blog ..A step into the world of autism =-.
mary & arvind
I also lost my job and got divorced at the same time – maybe we should start a club?
love the idea of using the elements to overcome difficult times
completely and utterly, the four central nodes on the circle of life
there are two animated series that really go further into the idea of using the elements as part evolution/ part martial art.
the first is quite popular, its called Avatar[The Last AirBender]
http://www.thelastairbendermovie.com is the movie coming out this year.
the second is a series from Tokyo TV, called Naruto
this delves further into the ninja paradigm, where ninja’s use their energy and the elements to achieve powerful techniques
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Naruto
both teach powerful lessons about our inherent connection to the Nature, and both feature kids as the heroes capable of super-human feats. Two lessons we all would do well to keep in mind
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