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		<title>By: zencontrol.net</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5764</link>
		<dc:creator>zencontrol.net</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 20:33:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very lovely and motivating post. It raises hope that anyone can bring change in this society in small or big way. Gandhi was a pretty introvert and shy person , but once he took a stand and realized he can change the world - that resulted in Gandhism.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very lovely and motivating post. It raises hope that anyone can bring change in this society in small or big way. Gandhi was a pretty introvert and shy person , but once he took a stand and realized he can change the world &#8211; that resulted in Gandhism.<br />
.-= zencontrol.net&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ZenControl/~3/ahaL39vNSG8/" rel="nofollow">Is Television acting like a slow poison for your relationship?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: fey</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5734</link>
		<dc:creator>fey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 10:44:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good articles~
I suggest Mary to introduce more information about Positive Psychology.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good articles~<br />
I suggest Mary to introduce more information about Positive Psychology.</p>
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		<title>By: Evan</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5733</link>
		<dc:creator>Evan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 22:16:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mary, 

My guess is that there are spontaneous experiences that happen before we make up stories.

I suppose you could say that our spontaneous reactions are shaped by our previous experience and so influenced by our story.  But at the time they are spontaneous I think.

It is possible (though perhaps not desirable) to view everything indifferently but this takes intense training (and I&#039;m not sure would be desirable if possible).

This is my take on things.  Does it make sense to you or do you experience things differently to this?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mary, </p>
<p>My guess is that there are spontaneous experiences that happen before we make up stories.</p>
<p>I suppose you could say that our spontaneous reactions are shaped by our previous experience and so influenced by our story.  But at the time they are spontaneous I think.</p>
<p>It is possible (though perhaps not desirable) to view everything indifferently but this takes intense training (and I&#8217;m not sure would be desirable if possible).</p>
<p>This is my take on things.  Does it make sense to you or do you experience things differently to this?<br />
.-= Evan&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.livingauthentically.org/products-page/?category=1&amp;product_id=1" rel="nofollow">Living Authentically</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Jaksch</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5732</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Jaksch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 12:29:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Evan!

Lovely comment full of interesting ideas! I was wondering about the ‘primary experience’ that you describe so eloquently: &quot;the intake of breath
when we see beauty.&quot; 

I&#039;m wondering whether that sudden intake of breath that signals surprise and awe happens BEFORE we make up a story about the experience. That is, BEFORE we tell ourselves that the sunset is &#039;magnificent&#039; or &#039;dull&#039;. 

Those evaluations seem to me to be a &#039;secondary experience&#039;.

What do you think, Evan?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Evan!</p>
<p>Lovely comment full of interesting ideas! I was wondering about the ‘primary experience’ that you describe so eloquently: &#8220;the intake of breath<br />
when we see beauty.&#8221; </p>
<p>I&#8217;m wondering whether that sudden intake of breath that signals surprise and awe happens BEFORE we make up a story about the experience. That is, BEFORE we tell ourselves that the sunset is &#8216;magnificent&#8217; or &#8216;dull&#8217;. </p>
<p>Those evaluations seem to me to be a &#8216;secondary experience&#8217;.</p>
<p>What do you think, Evan?</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Jaksch</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5731</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Jaksch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 12:11:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kirk!
I must admit this post took some writing... Some posts just write themselves but this one just wouldn&#039;t sit down and be quiet.

If the others of this series are just as difficult, I&#039;m in for a hard time...eeek!

As to stories - I agree with what you say. They are important - but as you say so eloquently, &quot;They are not, however, the full reality, and why I say that is that we should never trust them as full and open reality, comprehensive, or expressing the fullness of truth.&quot;

And still...I have an open mind about the value or otherwise of stories. I look forward to your guest post - maybe some more clarity about stories will emerge. 

[Everyone - I&#039;ve asked Kirk to write a guest post for us. You&#039;ll see- he&#039;s really something!]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kirk!<br />
I must admit this post took some writing&#8230; Some posts just write themselves but this one just wouldn&#8217;t sit down and be quiet.</p>
<p>If the others of this series are just as difficult, I&#8217;m in for a hard time&#8230;eeek!</p>
<p>As to stories &#8211; I agree with what you say. They are important &#8211; but as you say so eloquently, &#8220;They are not, however, the full reality, and why I say that is that we should never trust them as full and open reality, comprehensive, or expressing the fullness of truth.&#8221;</p>
<p>And still&#8230;I have an open mind about the value or otherwise of stories. I look forward to your guest post &#8211; maybe some more clarity about stories will emerge. </p>
<p>[Everyone - I've asked Kirk to write a guest post for us. You'll see- he's really something!]</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Jaksch</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5730</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Jaksch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 12:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Nicholas!
I&#039;m glad you like my welcome video. I enjoyed making it but I wasn&#039;t sure if people would like it. Great to get some feedback!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Nicholas!<br />
I&#8217;m glad you like my welcome video. I enjoyed making it but I wasn&#8217;t sure if people would like it. Great to get some feedback!</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Jaksch</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5729</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Jaksch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 11:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Nadia! 

You say,  &quot;I think the key is to recognize what our skills and talents are and use them to help make the world better.&quot; Great stuff!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Nadia! </p>
<p>You say,  &#8220;I think the key is to recognize what our skills and talents are and use them to help make the world better.&#8221; Great stuff!</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Jaksch</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5728</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Jaksch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 11:52:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Julie!
I&#039;m glad that the Bandura article was what you needed. 

I love his ideas. But the way he write is terribly obscure. It&#039;s so rare to find academics who can actually WRITE...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Julie!<br />
I&#8217;m glad that the Bandura article was what you needed. </p>
<p>I love his ideas. But the way he write is terribly obscure. It&#8217;s so rare to find academics who can actually WRITE&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Jaksch</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5727</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Jaksch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 11:48:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mete!
What an interesting idea that we can be our own role models! When we feel down we can remind ourselves of our previous skillful actions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mete!<br />
What an interesting idea that we can be our own role models! When we feel down we can remind ourselves of our previous skillful actions.</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Jaksch</title>
		<link>http://goodlifezen.com/2009/06/24/are-you-an-agent-of-change/#comment-5726</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Jaksch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 11:40:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Sami!
That&#039;a neat way to see the power of synergy: &quot;If you have enough people making a small change, a big result can ensue.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Sami!<br />
That&#8217;a neat way to see the power of synergy: &#8220;If you have enough people making a small change, a big result can ensue.&#8221;</p>
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