
A guest post by Kent Thune, author of The Financial Philosopher blog
You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give. ~ Kahlil Gibran
Isn’t it amazing what happens when money and material wealth are taken away?
This post was inspired by Mary’s story (and those of GoodLifeZEN readers) as shared in her recent post, The Lost Art of Giving. What occurred to me as I read the post, and the comments that followed it, was that the true spirit of humanity is stronger now than I can recall in my memory.
What I find encouraging and rewarding in the midst of this financial crisis is that, as the excesses of greed, scandal and consumerism are exposed and reduced, what remains for many of us is an enhanced necessity and desire to give of ourselves. In some cases, there is no other choice but to find creative means of giving because the monetary means of giving has been minimized or even removed by the destructive forces of the financial crisis.
Our net worth may be less today than it was one year ago, but our self worth is now enabled to be discovered… and we have been given what may be the greatest gift in a generation – the opportunity for profound personal growth…
One’s own self is well hidden from one’s own self; of all mines of treasure, one’s own is the last to be dug up. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
Why is it that something traumatic is required for us to properly align our priorities?
I believe that social conventions actually cover our true selves and act as inhibitors to reaching our full potential. These inhibiting social conventions tell us to choose an area of study in college that will produce the most financially rewarding career; they push us to climb the corporate ladder, to earn more money, to buy a bigger house, and to show our love and affection by giving “things;” and these social conventions have us (knowingly or unknowingly) misguiding our children down the same path.
Now enter the devastating “financial crisis.”
What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly. ~ Richard Bach
As a financial planner and investment adviser by trade, I could find many reasons to be pessimistic this 2008 holiday season. To the contrary, I choose to find a beautiful silver lining surrounding the darkest of clouds hanging over our heads…
If you know anything about financial markets, you likely understand that they are cyclical in nature. I won’t spend time or energy here discussing the quantitative dynamics of financial market movements, but my optimism with regard to the human spirit is that the end of economic cycles is marked by a removal of excess – what the media will call a recession and corresponding bear market for stocks – and this process of removal is one of rebirth and cleansing.
What is to give light must endure burning. ~ Viktor Frankl
What the removal of excess brings is something truly amazing: The tragedy brought forth by the worst in humanity simultaneously enables the best in humanity – much in the same way a devastating storm brings neighbors together and inspires the “victims” to reflect on what is most important in life:
- When we give, we give of ourselves, rather than “things;”
- As we observe all that we have “lost,” our survival instinct reminds us of what we still possess – those things that go beyond the physical and material – our health, family, personal relationships and our capacity to hope;
- And we are reminded that the pursuit of money, material wealth and social status (collectively called “the rat race”) does not bring us closer to happiness, but paradoxically takes us further away from it by diverting us away from the path to meaning and purpose in our lives.
I tell you that virtue is not given by money – but that from virtue comes money and every other good of man… ~ Socrates
As we end a year that history will remember as the worst for the economy and stock market in a generation, I will remember 2008 as the greatest gift in a generation – the opportunity to realize our misplaced desire to pursue money, material wealth and social status is a pursuit void of meaning and purpose.
May we all remember, maintain and teach our children that life is not about making money – money is about making a life. This would truly be the gift that keeps on giving…
If you enjoyed this article, please visit Kent Thune’s blog The Financial Philosopher
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Thank you for this article, Kent! It’s wonderful to see you progress from excellent commenter to guest poster on Goodlife Zen.
I especially treasure one particular quote: “What is to give light must endure burning”
I might take it up as the focus for a future article
Thanks for the opportunity to share with you and your readers.
The quote, “What is to give light must endure burning,” comes from Viktor Frankl’s incredible book, “Man’s Search for Meaning.”
That book has inspired me (and millions of others) and I am sure it would inspire several blog posts for you as it has for me…
Cheers…
“Ever more people today have the means to live, but no meaning to live for.” ~ Viktor Frankl
Kent
A wonderful article! It’s reassuring to shift perspective in the heart of these current ‘interesting times’, to feel something more important than relative material lack… something our general way of society seems woefully incapable of doing.
Thanks for writing this!
Mete:
Thanks for the comment. It seems many people are saddened by the financial crisis — almost as though they are grieving the loss of a loved one…
I certainly understand financial hardship but I believe most people, if they really search their feelings, are feeling anxiety because they have given too much value to money and not enough to meaning in their lives.
Hopefully this financial crisis will help awaken many to the misguided belief that money, material wealth and social status is a prudent and primary pursuit…
“Money often costs too much.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
Hi Kent! Excellent guest post!
‘life is not about making money – money is about making a life’ – I can’t agree more. When I was younger, I saw money as an end – it was only when I started earning money and achieving the goal that I realized money is a means, but not an end. (Incidentally, I am also talking about the same learning in my blog post today on how I realized earning money is not a real life purpose)
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Celes:
Great! Keep spreading the truth about money and pointing others in a meaningful direction…
Cheers…
Very well said Kent. This was a delightful read because of the self-reflection it inspired. I feel better after having read it. Who says financial guys don’t have big hearts?
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Tom:
I appreciate the thoughts. I felt better after writing it, as well…
“I write to keep from going mad from the contradictions I find among mankind – and to work some of those contradictions out for myself.” ~ Michel de Montaigne
Hi Kent,
I really enjoyed this article. It reminds me of a passage in “A New Earth” by Eckhart Tolle where he challenges the reader to think of the pain they have experienced in their life as a gift, for it is this pain that has led them to a higher state of consciousness.
The financial crisis is causing much pain, and there is understandably a lot of anger being directed at the bankers on Wall St. But the crisis has also revealed the ugliness of society that places such high value in acquiring money, social status and “things”. Let’s hope people do, in fact, use this opportunity to correct these misplaced desires.
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Great point Peter. Attaching meaning to suffering is something I’ve always tried to practice. As I stated in a previous comment, Viktor Frankl helped me with this valuable life skill…
Cheers…
Kent,
Great article. I love the idea of removing excess. That is exactly what needs to happen in the current economic downtown. We need to get read of excess spending, excess waste, excess debt, and excess rushing around.
Your post reminds me of a website I recently came across trying to reclaim the point of Christmas:
http://www.adventconspiracy.org/
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Great post. Thank you for sharing this, I love Kent’s posts. I love the re-birth perspective. I feel the same way. To purge the unnecessary is to make room for that which is new.
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Your blog is very nice.
Thank you.
We can do so much when we are poor.
Just imagine what we could do with some money too!
Seriously though, I have yet to meet the middle-class or upper-class citizen who considers their own wealth “in excess”.
I learned that no matter what hardship we face. It can be used to help us “see” and grow. It is important to act rather than react to the present situation so the future moment or siuation will improve.
I just have to say, “really?” Can you stay in this vibe when you are running up credit cards to buy food and can’t pay for you and your childrens’ home? Even for a person, such as myself, devoted to the betterment of humanity, full of love and life and willing to give, and did no evils to anyone that I am supposed to learn what I already knew to be true? Sorry for saying this but it’s poppycock! That is how I feel anyway. This is all about the people being willing to put up with this crap from a handful of crooks in the world, plain and simple. Once the people rise up and throw the government and those who control it to the curb, we won’t see this crap anymore.