The line between good and evil cuts though the heart of every human being -Solzhenitsyn
Could you be a hero? Like Jim Grant, for example. He is an ordinary person, but something made him do a u-turn when he saw smoke billowing out of a San Diego apartment building. He called the fire service. Then he got out of the car.
When he found out that no-one had gone into the building to make sure everyone was out, Jim sprinted to a side entrance and bounded up the stairs. The heat and smoke on the second floor was horrible. He ran along the hallway, kicking and banging on each door.
He thought everyone must have got out, when he kicked open a door that was ajar and saw a young woman in a wheelchair with a tiny baby in her arms and a young boy beside her. “Get out!” he screamed. But the woman looked at him in confusion. “I’m have to get dressed and get my crutches,” she said.
Jim grabbed the newborn, and bolted outside, dragging the boy along. When he got outside there was still no sign of the firecrew. Hardly able to breathe, Jim rushed upstairs again. By now Jim could hardly breathe because the smoke was so thick. But the woman, Maria Catlett, refused to go with him as she was confused and still hadn’t got dressed. Jim left her and ran back outside.
There was still no sight of the fireservice. But a young police officer, Caleb Knobel, had arrived. Jim told him about the woman. “Will you take me to her?” Caleb asked. Jim nodded and the went back into house. By now the fire had taken hold and they could hardly see in the thick, black smoke. The managed to find Maria, lifted her out of her wheelchair and managed to carry her to safety.
.Would you have gone into a blazing house three times to rescue people like Jim Grant did? Maybe you don’t think so.
.Everyone of us has the capacity to be a hero. This strength in us is like a sleeping giant, ready to awaken when we encounter a circumstance where our action is likely to save a life.
.What about the capacity to be a villain? Do we all have that a well?
.Here is a frightening experiment:
In the early 1970s a group of psychologists, led by Philip Zimbardo, decided to create a mock prison in the basement of a university building in order to study the behaviour of ‘inmates’ and ‘prison guards’. Of the 75 who applied, Zimbardo chose the twenty most mentally healthy men. Randomly, half were assigned the role of prison guards, complete with uniform and dark glasses. They were asked to keep order.
.The other half were assigned the role of prisoner. Zimbardo got the police department to ‘arrest’ the prisoners and they were finger-printed, blindfolded, and thrown into the small cells prepared for them in the university building. They were stripped of their clothes and given prison garb to wear. The only identifying mark was a number on their back.
.The prison ‘guards’ – some of whom had previously identified themselves as pacifists – soon fell into the role of hard disciplinarians. When the ‘prisoners’ rebelled and barricaded themselves in, the guards got more and more cruel and even sadistic. They made the ‘prisoners’ march up and down the hallway naked with paper bags over their heads, they kept them awake at night, and sprayed them with fire extinguishers. Zimbardo broke off the experiment when quite a number of the ‘prisoners’ responded with severe depression, crying, rage, and acute anxiety.
.You can hear Dr. Zimbardo describing this experiment in this TED talk.
.Maybe you too ask yourself, “What if I had been one of the guards. Would I have terrorized the prisoners?” I would like to say, “No, no – I would never have acted like that!” But there is a doubt in my heart. I know that I too carry the human potential for both good and for evil.
.In Zimbardo’s fascinating book, The Lucifer Effect: Understanding How Good People Turn Evil, he writes that there are three questions we need to answer in order to know whether we would respond as a hero or as a villain.
1. Personal: What disposition do we bring into the situation?
2. Situational: What does the situational circumstances bring out of us?
3. Systemic: What are the cultural influences, i.e. political, economic, or legal?
.Are you surprized at the way the ‘guards’ behaved? One of them later said, “I think I was positively creative in terms of my mental cruelty. It was completely the opposite from the way I conduct myself now.”
.Dr. Zimbardo defines evil as follows:
.Evil is the exercise of power to intentionally harm people psychologically, to hurt people physically, and or to destroy mortally people or ideas, and to commit crimes against humanity.
.Let’s take a closer look at evil.
.At the heart of evil lies aggression.
I’m sure we all agree with that. But what lies at the heart of aggression?
.At the heart of aggression lies estrangement.
A look at our evolutionary cousins, the chimpanzees, makes this clearer.
.When Jane Goodall started studying chimpanzees, she thought for many years that they are like humans – only nicer. (She describes her life with them in her wonderful book My Life with the Chimpanzees) Then, one day, the group of chimpanzee she was observing started to divide. One break-away group started to frequent a particular area. Soon they began to claim this area as their territory.
.Then warfare broke out that lasted for four years and ended only when the break-away group was completely annihilated. The thing that was most shocking to Jan Goodall was that the apes who finally maimed and killed each other had originally been playmates or grooming mates, but this seemed to be completely forgotten in this warfare.
Goodall calls this process of estrangement ‘social speciation’. What happens is that ‘in’-group to start to behave differently from an ‘out’-group members. After a while, the ‘out’-group may come to be regarded almost as members of a different species. This frees group members of the ‘in’-group from the inhibitions and social sanctions that operate within the group, and enables them to direct acts towards “those others” which would not be tolerated within the group.
;Does this seem familiar human behavior as well? I think it’s the familiar mindset of ‘them’ and ‘us’. Just think of ridicule, bullying, and ostracism on one end of the scale of evil, and slavery and torture at the other end.
.Even though we fall into ‘them’ and ‘us’ thinking at times, we also have the capacity to rise above such limiting and damaging thoughts and behaviors.That’s why Jane Goodalls book Reason for Hope: A Spiritual Journey is an inspiring view of humanity.
Our mind has the an infinite capacity to make us behave kind or cruel, caring or indifferent, creative or destructive. Each one of us has the capacity to be villains or heroes.
What are your thoughts on this?
.Note: In a follow-up article I’m going to write about the secret way our mind chooses good or evil, moment by moment. Armed with this knowledge, we can intentionally walk away from the dark and move towards the light. Stay tuned!
Photo of Jim Grant courtesy of Readers Digest

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Great article. I’ve recently come to see this process active (again, it’s quite frequent) and it’s scary. The big question is: how does one get out of this process without killing one group or the other?
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Hi Katinka!
When we are immersed in a big ‘them or us’ issue, it seems impossible to get out of that maelstrom.
But I think it is possible to change – if we look into our own mind and let go of the recurring thoughts that cement the ‘us’ and ‘them’ mindset.
I’ve seen the “us versus them” thing happen in so many places. The worst was in the workplace, where there was an “interns versus fulltime” mentality. It really divided us and the work suffered.
Thank you for shedding some light on these issues. I especially liked learning more about Jane Goodall’s work.
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Mary,
Certainly we all have the possibility for either greatness or evil (hero or villain) to come out of us. I like the term sin-nature to describe the evil that can come out of us. The prison experiment is a good example of this, but so are the many examples of people who follow any orders during times of war or conflict.
The same ability to be a villain comes out in little things every day that we often don’t even think about. It comes out when we pass by someone who needs our help (telling ourselves that we don’t have time or that it would be dangerous to help etc..), it comes out when we say negative things to others, or share gossip about someone when they are not there, and it comes out when we embellish our resume or our product sales in a meeting. The list could go on and on. We all have this sin nature within us. Thankfully we also have the choice to move beyond it and become heroes like you suggest.
Thanks.
Hi Nathalie!
‘Them versus Us’ thinking happens everywhere. It’s quite insidious. We start down that track just a little – and then the frontiers harden. I mean the frontiers in our mind.
Hi Success Professor!
I think it’s true what you say: “The same ability to be a villain comes out in little things every day that we often don’t even think about.”
We move towards the dark with imperceptible steps, telling ourselves all the time that we are doing the right thing.
The good news is that we can catch ourselves early, and notice the thoughts that separate us from other, so that we can let go of them. In that way we can reverse our steps – and maybe even offer selfless acts of help or heroism.
I believe every human being has different sides simultaneously. If you share this view, you do not choose either hero or vilian to mould within yourself. Your mind actually holds traits of both. Your level of awareness, discipline and self-control, determine which character traits you focus on and manifest. Your energy vibration may be higher or lower as reflected by thoughts and behavior. Negative, destructive thoughts generate lower energy and may be associated with vilian personas. Positive, loving thoughts generate higher energy and may be associated with your good side. Everyone needs both sides to feel complete. Reflect on the premise behind Jim Henson’s movie, The Dark Crystal. When a shard was fragnmented from the crystal, good and evil were separated. The journey of the protagonist enables him to replace the crystal shard in its proper place. The result
Another great post, Mary. I asked a similar question on heroism in my own blog last week after a murder in my county town. A man went to help a homeless man and his girlfriend. They were being attacked by a gang of youths. Sadly, he was killed by them. I wondered how many of us would have done the same.
But each day we can be heroes in some small way, I believe. Just cultivating mindfulness in the most basic way will help change society. By being aware of the present moment, our own state of mind, the woman with a pram as we drive by down a narrow street, giving way to someone on a narrow path or thanking someone who does this for us. These things can help reduce the tide of anger, greed and selfishness. If we all became smaller heroes in this way, together we could make a big difference too.
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Hi Porillion!
Could you please give us the link to the article you wrote last week. I payed a visit to your interesting blog but couldn’t find it.
I love your idea of all of us becoming ‘small heroes’!
Hi, Mary,
As requested. The link to the article on “small heroes” inspired by the hero sadly killed in Norwich is: http://porillion.wordpress.com/2008/10/02/hero-killed-in-norwich-the-need-for-change/
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Hi Porillion!
Thank you for offering the link to your article. It’s a poignant story and your article is beautifully written. I especially like the way you suggest we practice peacefulness.
Interesting post. I need to think about this some more. I’m interested in reading about the secret ways our minds choose good vs. evil.
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Hi Stacey!
Ok, I will write it. But it will take a few weeks to appear. Please stay tuned.
I think evil has a way of coming when people start seeing themselves as more important then others.
Most acts of cruelty come about from prejudices.
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Hi Martin!
I think you are right: “I think evil has a way of coming when people start seeing themselves as more important then others.”
Hi Mary – this is a very interesting article. Moving. It is so true about the estrangement thing. I worked for a while in a magazine where you essentially had two main departments, “(advertising) sales” and “(magazine) production”. Despite the fact that it is a fuzzy little hippy magazine, the two factions, separated by a glass wall and different core tasks … well suffice to say there is ample friction.
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Hi Seamus!
Isn’t it strange how we do that?! Groups are always splitting into factions. There’s so much unhappiness there.
Isn’t all this reminiscient of Lord of the Flies, where human psyche is tested in a stressed situation free from authority.
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