Dance is a poem. Each movement is a word - Mata Hari
I love dancing. When I was 3 years old I suddenly appeared in the lounge at 11 o’clock at night - stark naked and completely silent. My parents told me that they watched open-mouthed as I began to dance to a complete Beethoven symphony they were listening to. After 30 minutes of dancing, I went back to bed without speaking a single word - so my mother told me. Some years ago, when my mother was slipping into dementia, I told her that I was going to tango classes and was surprised to feel so at home.
She looked at me and said, “Oh, you silly mutt- how you could forget how much you love dancing?”
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These days, dance has come back into my life. David, my partner, is a tango teacher and I am his assistant and dance partner. Whenever there is music to dance to, David and I get up and dance -whether it’s the samba in steamy Rio de Janeiro, or the tango in Buenos Aires . I know that some people find it strange that a Zen master should also be passionate about dancing. As if Zen should be severe and otherworldly! In the West we imagine that sensuality and spirituality are at opposite ends of a spectrum.
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There is a close link between dancing and spirituality. I think that one dance in particular is closely aligned to Zen. That’s Argentine tango. To dance the tango you have to abide in mindfulness. The moment a tango dancer falls out of mindfulness into thinking, the connection to the dance and to one’s partner is broken. It’s like falling out of heaven with a thud! There is an interesting book by Chan Park, called Tango Zen. In it he traces the connection between tango and Zen. You can find his website and new blog here.
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When we dance we tap into deeper patterns of the universe and link into life’s vital energy. That is why dance is one of the ancient ways of connection with the sacred and dance forms part of ritual for many spiritual traditions.
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Here are seven ways dancing enhances spirit and body:
When we dance with someone, we open to another person. It’s as if this hard shell that we think of as ‘I’ becomes permeable. Not only does dancing help us connect with others, it also helps us re-connect with ourselves.
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Dancing gets us in touch with who we are. We can so easily to lose touch with aspects of ourselves. When you look back, were you maybe more daring, more outrageous, funny, more sensuous, or more playful in the past? You can recover those submerged parts by dancing. I’ve definitely recovered my innate playfulness and sensuality through dancing! Check out a short clip of a tango performance by David and myself on YouTube:
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***Dancing encourages and improves the overall health and fitness of the body. Dancing
The beat of music affects both body and mind. A slow piece with a beat of about 60 beats per minute (bpm) can trigger alpha waves in the brain which trigger a tranquil but alert state of mind. Music with a faster beat can accelerate the heart-beat and speed up our endocrine system.
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When we hear and move to music, our body resonates with the sounds we are hearing. Lower frequencies, such as drums produce, are felt in the pelvic area, whereas higher frequencies, such as flutes produce, are felt in the head area.
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As Keti Sharif explains, this is why African warriors dance in low, grounded, aggressive movements to earthy drums, while the Sufi dervishes spin to flutes for enlightenment. Guitar sounds resonate in the mid-body area of the solar plexus and evoke feelings of pride and courage, apparent in Spanish flamenco. The emotive heart area tunes into a higher frequency again, so instruments such as piano accordion, bandoneon, flute, or violin create music that engages feeling and “pulls the heartstrings”.
Dancing assists our ability to focus, learn and retain. Learning sequences is good for the mind. Learning to dance creates new neural pathways and helps us to stay younger for longer.
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Movement skills build confidence. And with confidence comes a forgetting of self. We get absorbed in the task. Dancing is a wonderful way to appreciate oneself in a new way.
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Dancing lifts the mood. When we feel the music and express it, we can feel joy and well-being. When you learn a particular dance, you may feel awkward and stiff at first, but soon, you will find the graceful you hidden within.
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Mary and David at a tango dance
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Dancing provides opportunities to meet people. Each kind of dance attracts different kinds of people and if you choose the dance form that is right for you, you will meet like-minded people with whom you can connect. I met my partner David at a Latin night 8 years ago. That chance meeting brought lasting joy, love and fun into my life.
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Dancing is a natural human function. Babies delight in bouncing and dancing to music. In the course of assisting David at tango classes, I meet many people who say to me, “I can’t dance; I’ve got two left feet.” But in fact, everyone can dance! All you need to do is to re-discover your innate ability to express yourself in movement.
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PS: You might enjoy this companion article about my tango adventures in Buenos Aires, called Zen and the Art of Travel
Copyright: Mary Jaksch 2008
(Video and second photo courtesy of Robbert Haas)

Wow Mum - that video is simply awesome!
Sebastian
I like dancing but, truth be told, sometimes I’m good, sometimes I’m not. What I mean is, I dance because it’s fun but I don’t go out of my way to go dancing…I haven’t taken formal lessons or anything… I dance because my g/f enjoys it when we’re out.
We’ve looked into taking some dance classes which I think would be fun but we’re still trying to find something that works with our schedule ![]()
I think dance classes are a great way to go! Just make sure you testdrive different kinds of dances and dance-teachers to find what is right for you.
Happy dancing, Ricardo!
I love to dance. I’ve done a little ballroom, but I would enjoy doing more. Mostly, I just turn up some good music in the living room and go nuts. Great exercise, a moving yoga!
Nice post. I enjoyed reading it.
Ah great, dancing is one of my favourite things to do too Mary! I’m a Drum n Bass and Jungle fiend, and I really don’t know what it is but when the 180bpm layered breakbeat rhythms start playing and the bassline rumbles in my chest I just become like a wild animal bursting with energy! It can keep me entertained 7 nights a week, all night long, or at least until my legs start screaming at me to stop.
It’s fantastic and I really couldnt put my finger on why that combination of more complex rhythm structures and simplistic basslines does that to me, while other less complex rhythms but perhaps more melodically complex music won’t come close. I guess I just found my natural resonant point there..
I’ve had discussions with people who say people pick different points of music as focal points for a dance; while some dance to basslines and won’t be bored by more simplistic rhythms, I think I dance almost exclusively to the drums and find moderation of expression through basslines or melodies, maybe explaining my passion for complex drum-lines. I guess there’s some really interesting self-analysis to be found in dance tastes, at least for those of us lucky enough to be addicted to dance, what do you think?
loved the video!
First, thanks for linking my web site to your blog. I enjoyed your posting. I totally agree with your point. I think I am a living proof of your point. In fact, I enjoyed dancing so much that I changed my profession from engineer to tango dance instructor in an effort to share the joy of dancing. I look forward to seeing you in Buenos Aires.
When I first started this blog someone sent me a rather stern comment, saying, “your blog is much too impersonal. You should reveal more about your own life.” Well, it’s not so impersonal now…
Ooh La La Mary, you tangoing sex kitten you! That video was fantastic - what a figure you have!
I am also passionate about dancing and Latin is my favorite. When I was in Mexico I worked in San Miguel De Allende for 6 weeks and there was a couple there who taught dance and to drum up business they would go dance around town. I used to love going to this one particular bar and just buying a beer and watching them carve up the dancefloor. They were so effortless and connected it was like making love on the dance floor and compelling viewing. I had the opportunity to dance salsa with the man before I left town and he was so good he made ME look like a pro.
Dance really is the spirit and passion in motion and your piece has reminded me it’s probably time I got back into dance classes again.
Thanks. Great article
Kelly
By the way, I like the new blog design. Very Kiwi!
Kelly
I love the way you describe dance as ’spirit and passion in motion’. Somehow, when spirit and passion are liberated into motion, they find a new expression through us.
The most beautiful thing about dancing is that it takes two to tango! Great and refreshing article. I´ve always seen a simularity between dance and fight. In aikido this simularity seems very obvious. http://nl.youtube.com/watch?v=rG_tnefyOcc
that’s awesome! I feel like dancing right now with someone. thanks for the wisdom, brad
Whenever I’m alone, I find myself dancing. And it always makes me happier! However, I’m more of a dancing by myself with a iPod kind of girl…
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