How To Defeat The Blues This Winter

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Are you blue?

According to ‘experts’ this Monday was ‘The Most Depressing Day Of The Year’.

Nicknamed ‘Blue Monday’  Dr Cliff Arnall insisted it was one of the most depressing days ever:

Credit card bills are a big problem after Christmas, snow, ice and floods are causing worries, and many feel a lack of motivation.

Well, here at GoodlifeZEN where we believe happiness is more an internal matter than external,

3 Strategies to Boost Confidence and Feel Good about Yourself

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Are you a perfectionist?

Your answer will reveal the truth:

Do you often try to achieve a perfect standard in your work?

Do you feel a need to perfect at everything you do, even at the expense of your health and well-being?

If your answer the two questions above was ‘Yes,’ then you are in danger of being a perfectionist!

Nothing is ever ‘good enough’ for a perfectionist,

4 Simple Ways To Increase Your Happiness Right Now

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In today’s modern world you are continuously bombarded with what’s good, how it increases your happiness and why you absolutely must have this product or that service.

Marketers tell you that the key to happiness is spending or consuming more, associating positivity with ownership and fame.

Politicians tell you that a strong economy can help create more happiness and contentment.

But the question is; do these things really play a role in bringing eternal happiness?

Are You Crippling Your Confidence With This Toxic Advice?

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It doesn’t work, does it?

For you, I mean.

It might work for some people, but the truth is, you’re not ‘some people.’

You’re unique. Uniquely ‘you’.

And when you lose touch with your authentic self, the real you, you’re all at sea, unable to find that confidence you so desperately seek.

Because your authentic self is your compass,

How To Make The Switch And Create The Life You Crave

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Admit it.

You want to have ‘the good life’.

To do the things that matter.

And to make that change you want to see in the world.

These are your dreams.

But maybe you are stuck in a job or a career where you only follow the rules, become what other people want you to be, and end up living the life of others.

Sound familiar?

Need Energy Now? 11 Guaranteed Ways To Feel Superhuman

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You don’t know what’s wrong with you.

No matter what you try, you can’t conquer the exhaustion that drags you down all day.

Friends and colleagues ask if you’re okay, and you always reply that you’re tired.

You need energy now, but most “solutions” are disasters.

Naps backfire. You snooze the day away, only to wake up more exhausted than before.

Caffeine prevents sleep but doesn’t fix the root problem,

How to Listen To Your Heart And Transform Your Life

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Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts. Einstein

What do you do when you feel stuck in life?

Do you listen to your heart?

Or do you weigh the situation? Sum up pros and cons. Think about it. Then think about it some more.

All the while you feel increasingly anxious and overwhelmed.

You think: if only there was an easy solution to making difficult decisions.

How To Find Your Own Perfect Bliss

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Almost a year ago I made some changes. Some pretty drastic changes.

I sold my house, quit my day-job and moved to the country.

I wanted a simple existence. I wanted to eliminate all responsibility (well ok, most responsibility) and live a life where I could allow life to simply unfold on a day-to-day basis. No real planning. No-one to consider but myself. Pure bliss.

My work is online and completely flexible.

Why Silence Is More Important Than We Think

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Silence is golden.

But for the entirety of my young life, I needed noise. Music, TV, something had to be going on or I felt antsy. Time was a valuable thing, and if I wasn’t using every second of it, what a waste! I carried that feeling right into my adulthood, and you would rarely find me without some kind of distracting sound in the background: a stereo set to my favorite rock station,

8 Common Beliefs That Destroy Your Health and Cripple Your Happiness

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The purpose of life is to be happy ~Dalai Lama


Delicious, isn’t it?

The days sparkle, the sun shines and your life feels like an honest-to-goodness Disney movie.

But despite wanting it so badly, it’s proved elusive. And when you’ve finally thought it was in your grasp, you’ve opened your hand and found…nothing.

A family disagreement, financial worries or a bout of poor health can knock happiness right out of your hand.